I'm a mac person and don't do windows - is there another way?

I qualified the Englishman bit, I said he was a PURITANICAL Englishman, and actually, in behaviour he's not puritanical, just in the way he speaks. 

Anyway, Sleepycat -- sorry for the confusion, I forgot the verb in that sentence! I meant that I wasn't sure I wanted all of what TJ's casual romance offers in my game.  I'll reread the whole thing again and if I have questions, I'll post them there.

BTW, my sims can still woohoo in cars in community lots, but not at home, I just found out.  Can anyone just tell me the name of this fix so I can just search for it?  And, does anyone know why this error started only AFTER I installed stuff from here?

Ok thanks, I'll try TJ's ACR then - I didn't realise you have the option of setting jealousy with it on a per sim basis.  I was just under the impression that Pescado's romance mod globally killed jealousy for non-committed sims -- I just wanted this confirmed.

And....talking about jealosuy - i just started playing, all my sims are single, and one just got knocked up.  My question is (not sure the game is this sophisticated) Could a male sim realise he's not the father of his partner's baby, and if he does, does this trigger jealousy?  The situation is this:  My pleasure sim got pregnant woohooing with a knowledge sim in a dressing room.  Later, (before she showed symptoms) I had her go out on a date with a crush who is a money sim, (or whatever you call it) They had a dream date, during which it was the first time I saw the surprise proposal option, which I hit out of curiosity.  The guy accepted, which surprised me because he's in love with two other sims.  Anyway, now she's starting to show and all that and he's hanging out with her and he doesn't care.  I also had her call and talk with the sim who knocked her up but that didn't trigger anything.  I guess who fathers who and who knocks up who doesn't really matter in the game regarding relationship dynamics such as jealousy?  She hasn't had her kid yet so I don't know who will show up as the father and I'm wondering if it makes a difference if she has the baby before or after she marries this guy (If I decide to let them get married, I might have them break up.)

So then why did my slut get bitch-slapped for flirting with someone else by one of her other crushes? Everyone in my game is still single and there is still a lot of slapping going on.  Would there be a reason this wouldnt be working right?  Does it need to load first, or last or something else (I really don't know how these things work.)

Hey, I agree with JM -- I'ma woman and I NEVER uses the term "make love" - I think it's icky and puritanical and if I'm on a date and have been day dreaming about him he were to ask me, "wanna make love?", I'd be totally turned off because chances are my daydream would have a whole helluva lot more to do with fucking than with "making love".  This being said, my husband ONLY uses the term "make love" (because he's a puritanical Englishman, whereas I am a passionate Latin American) so go figure.  In response to the passion argument, how anyone can say there is more passion in mnaking love than in fucking is way beyond me.

As for the game -- it doesn't make this distinction - and I still think it's unrealistic and retarded.  if the sim clearly wants a flirt or a slow dance on a date, he should accept it.

Oh, and about the car fix - miros directed me to the OFB hack index (which I looked through several times before posting) and either I'm blind (and stupid) or it's not there anymore....can someone tell me what the fix is called?  Also, i tried the re-buying the car thing and it didn't work.

Lastly, I have dled TJ's casual romance, and have been reading the posts about it, but I'm not quite sure that all in my game, if I am uderstanding it correctly and am not sure that I am

I've been trying to figure this out for a while and you guys are so awesome, maybe you can help    In fact, I posted a related query in Sexy sims (I think) and Pescado (in His Awesomeness) directed me to his romance mod, but I am still a bit confused as to whether what I want is really doable. 

First and foremost, I don't want any jealousy triggered unless couples are married, engaged or going steady.  I think this is unrealistic.  I found a hack on MTS2 by Smonoff, but don't know if it can be used with the romance mod since he states it will conflict with other anti-jealousy hacks, but then again, I'm not sure what that means. 

Secondly, for jealousy to be triggered so readily with any flirt is both infantile and unrealistic, even if one is in a committed relationship.  I had a sim wolf whistle another and she happened to have a crush in the same store they were in and got bitch slapped by him.  This REALLY annoys me for it's highly unrealistic factor - I "flirt" all the time with friends and colleagues (in and out of the presence of my husband) and it doesn't affect him or us at all, I guess because of our maturity, personalities and strength of relationships, but I digress.  Anyway I've searched and don't think there is a hack that addresses this (I could be wrong) but it would be cool if there were.

Now, what I really want is to have a sim world in which polygamy/polyamory can exist, as well as sluts --> sims who are happy to sleep around and no one be jealous for him/her because they know that they're sluts.  I guess this can be solved with a no jealousy unless committed hack, but sluts are sluts, even if they're married.   Also, as far as I understand it, the romance mod makes outgoing romance/pleasure sims non jealous, and this is good (I guess) but not as broad or realistic as I want.  I guess I want my sims' attitudes re their sexuality not be at all contingent on their aspirations.  A knowledge or family sim should be non jealous type personality if we want to create him like this - why not?

Finally, if sims could be committed to more than one other sim (and of course, not trigger any jealousy within themselves only), that would be MOST awesome.

(Not sure I explained this right - it's past my bedtime and English is not my first language.  If confusion ensues, my apologies)

Um...probably not.  She's pretty much a slut.     I just think it's pretty retarded that if a sim expressly wants to be flirted by or slow dance with another sim and this sim offers, she gets dissed.  I think it's VERY retarded that the game allows for sims to want things they don't really want.  Anyway, what ends up happening is that these wants never get fulfilled so there's really no chance to have a dream date.

Hi -- this is my first post here so let me start with fully admitting my anti-awesomeness  , and also feel free to call me an idiot if this is a stupid question.  However.....

Ever since I've installed a whole bunch of mods from here, my sims are unable to woohoo in cars.  I searched this site, found a thread mentioning this problem by others and in it Pescado directs a user to go to the ofb test directory for the fix, but I can't find it there.  I'm running OFB and am on a mac in case this is relevant.

Also, has anyone encountered the following problem (which is monumentally annoying) and if so, is there a fix?  My sim is on a date and one of her date's wants is, for example, slow dance or flirt, so she attemps it (whatever the want is) and is rejected!  is this normal? it makes no sense!  This has actually happened several times in my game.