Besides, you're much better off going over to Simbology and getting the ACR (Autonomous Casual Romance) mod that TJ puts out; much better than the swinger bed and hot tub, and it works anywhere/everywhere in the game.
Oh, I hadn't thought of that. I'm running combination of Insim OBJ (make sure you have the correct version), and ACR. It could be those other hacks that are causing the problem. I once had some nonawesome plant related hack that borked the phones (go figure) - the hack that borks your game may not be the one you think is most obvious.