Re-download and install AM (Updates are done all the time which may not warrant a post to tell you it's new).
Personally, I'd re-do the configuration tool also.
Then pull out ALL your cc except AM.  ANY package can conflict with the game if it is badly made, and there's a LOT of badly made crap out there. 

If the game still won't load, THEN post here.

Pescado JUST uploaded a brand new shiny one! Try installing that one to clear it, it worked for me.

Ah! I forgot to that part out in my preview edit.  I gotta remind myself to have two cups of coffee before I try to make sense in the morning. 

Technically, you're correct, but without the config file you need to reset each config  every time you start it, true?

The point of the post was to get him to go back and read moar.

Obviously!  You didn't READ the setup instructions in the Manual at one of the TWO links in this sentence:
"The Manual is now too long to fit in a post and can be viewed here or here."
AND
You didn't click on the link that reads:
AwesomeMod Configuration Tool and set up the settings you want to use in your game,
 
and then:
 
You didn't SAVE the aweconfig.package to your computer and put it in your Mods folder WITH the Awesome.package!

So, as Pescado says, "FAIL!"

I didn't post the links to make you go back and READ!

Until you do, the Mod has NO instructions!

Do you need step-by-step instructions to breathe also?

P.S. You will find that this site has low tolerance for people that cannot search for, and read, plain simple instructions on setup and use of the Mods you find here.
Don't try shortcuts, READ and search and read moar!

Try searching for the particular SP here http://www.warez-bb.org/viewforum.php?f=5

I didn't see anything about the genetics in your original post, though you did mention looks, but again, with Twallan's supercomputer you can edit any existing adopted child in CAS to modify their looks more in line with their parents (though now that you know how to pollinate for a male/male genetic child, this probably won't be a future problem). 

Be careful with editing a pregnant Sim in CAS, sometimes the game will allow it and sometimes it won't, for me the time limit for editing is just before the first baby bump shows up, after that my game (I'm not sure about others, some can and some can't) won't let me take a pregnant Sim into CAS at all.  I end up 'hoping' that my nicer maternity clothes will end up being used, but I'm mostly disappointed. 

If I'm talking off the top of my head, I know I'll get pounced on for this, but here goes anyways.

I have Twallan's super computer in my game along with AM, and while I don't have any gay couples at the moment, couldn't his computer's "Pollinate" command circumvent the AM's anti-male/male pregnancy and produce a biological child of both parents?

If not, I am fairly sure that the relationship could be changed with it from adopted to biological by setting both of the adult males as parents.

If I'm wrong, pounce away.   

I had that problem several times.  My problem was a few badly made clothes and boot that were coded to be infant wear.

Try taking your baby to CAS and changing the clothes.  Then find those clothes and delete them.