hey thanks!
my game is fixed,the crashes were for this specific sim only because he was wearing a bodybuilder outfit,i changed his outfit and it didnt crash again! and idisabled shaders and changed settings to low,when i restarted game settings were back to high and game had a good speed! yayy
thanks again

oh! thats the problem i guess then!
i just uninstalled AL and checked and it was running really fast!
i thought the requirements didnt change with AL...thanks for your help! i will try playing with low settings!
thanks again

btw:my drivers for graphics are upto date


EDIT:
thanks for help,changed graphics setting from max to shitty and disabled the shaders and game ran quite well,but still crashed when accepting job from newspaper but didnt crash when accepting job from computer!!

yup and when i installed the slow game for the first time then what i did was  i deleted all my CC and my entire game and reinstalled from the beginning-sims2 and installed all eps and sps.and then tried playing with no cc at all,game was still slow and still crashing quite often even with no cc at all

no,i am not shift clicking.

ps: what do you mean by people are experiencing opposite? do you mean that people are having their games running faster after this ep?

i am wondering if anyone else is facing slow game after installing apartment life? my game is crashing when my sims try to accept a job from newspaper(havent tried with computer)

i pmed Hysterical Paroxysm of modthesism2 about this and she said

"597 is not any sort of game-bogging slowness and you end up with something over 400 NPCs in Belladonna Cove - even without ever having loaded a lot, if you have all EPs. This has been discussed in previous threads - the game can easily handle over a thousand character files with no issue. The problem is with changes to the engine itself."

when i got AL,i did a complete reinstall of my entire game and deleted all CC and families so the game was completely fresh and new.
i have 5 sims i made in my game.my game is continuosly getting slower and slower and today i read here about characters and i checked
The Sims 2\Neighborhoods\E001\Characters folder and i have 597 files there...what could be the problem? is it the npc generator problem?