Well it didn't seem to work. It seemed as though the widow thought he was still married, b/c I couldn't get the engagement proposal to come up with his new love. But deleting the dead wife's grave seemed to do the trick.

I went into the old house and found the wife's grave at the front of the house. I deleted that one along with his mother's grave. When I went back to my sim's lot, he was able to propose. Is that how it always works? You have to delete the grave in order for the marriage to no longer exist?

Now, on the insiminator there's a chair. I clicked on Relations Adjuster and that brought up a pink heart. From there I've got options about Marriage, Engaged, etc. I'm not sure what I'm supposed to do to allow him to get married again. I even saw something about a family tree, but the only ties it will let me end are the ones with the Sim he's leaving with. There's nothing about his deceased wife.

Yes, but after I realized I had it running, I quit the game and restarted it. Do I need to have the game off while it downloads and when I put it in the folder?

I downloaded it and put it in the folder, but I still can't marry my Sims. I think the game is hinting that I need a break, lol.

I've down the search several times with different wordings and can't find it. Can anyone help me? I don't even know if I'm asking this in the right place.