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Stitches:
Quote from: witch on 2007 March 23, 19:34:06


Yeah, but, but, Bowie, ya know? I LOVE the labyrinth, though I would'a tossed the kid and lived in the Escher castle with Bowie.
*drools*

One of my mates, who was once a working girl, said she had Bowie once. There were four bodyguards in the room whilst he was bonking. (Not watching, just sitting). Weird, she said. Kinda hard to perform, I would have thought.


I've heard similar stories. Apparently he's not very self conscious.

Tamha:
He's probably had bodyguards for 30 years, I'd guess you have to get used to them at some point.

neriana:
Quote from: witch on 2007 March 23, 19:34:06

Quote from: neriana on 2007 March 20, 23:59:06

Quote from: gali on 2007 March 20, 22:53:10

But when someone says: "my wish is his command", he declares that he rules the other person, and can manipulate him to do whatever he wants. That's very romantic, isn't it?



You've never seen Labyrinth, have you?


Yeah, but, but, Bowie, ya know? I LOVE the labyrinth, though I would'a tossed the kid and lived in the Escher castle with Bowie.
*drools*


He's super-sexy, but any relationship where the guy says "fear me, love me, do as I say" is one which I would run from screaming, probably changing my name and moving to another state. Now, if he gave the kid back and dropped the whole bossing me around schtick, we could talk.

Speaking of Bowie, I saw an interview with him in which he talked about how hard it was for him to come out as completely straight. He'd been part of the whole 70's bisexual New Wave thing, then realized later that no, he really only liked to boink women.

witch:
Which just goes to prove the point that sexuality is a continuum. My default setting is het but I have fallen for two special women during my life and merely had to move out of my comfort zone a little. It was about them and not about binary rigidity. I don't believe people are either gay or not gay, they're somewhere in between - sure there are some folks on each end of the line - but as I picture it like a bell curve, there's a hell of a lot of people somewhere in the middle. Opportunities arise, some people are open to them, some are not.

ETA: Quote from: neriana on 2007 March 25, 00:59:57

Now, if he gave the kid back and dropped the whole bossing me around schtick, we could talk.

Yeah, yeah, I know. It's that bad boy thang.

seelindarun:
Maybe it's more true about women?

My experience is similar to yours, but I found that emotional intimacy was a much bigger factor in my attraction to my two special women.  I daresay if not for that, we'd never have had sex at all.

However, with men I've had some quite excellent bonks with ones I didn't care to know any better than that.  :D

What I'm suggesting is that purely physical attraction may be more binary, but that other forms of intimacy may draw us to become sexually expressive with individuals who aren't as physically compelling to us.

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