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J. M. Pescado:
Quote from: Judecat on 2005 September 21, 07:47:27
I don't think because a woman has a low cut summer top that she is asking to be staired at. I do ren faire re-enacting, and some of those dresses have very little coverage. Got so tired of the guys stairing that I payed to have the all my undershifts modified so that I have cotton and small ruffles 4 or 5 inches above the neckline of the dresses.
Just as I don't think that girls who wear mini skirts are looking to be attached, molested or raped.
I disagree. Patterns of dress which call attention to oneself from unpleasant elements *ARE* asking for it. If you walk into a bad neighborhood dressed in flashy jewelry, you are going to be (a) robbed or (b) mistaken for a pimp. These are just things you don't want to do around certain company. On the other hand, maybe you *ARE* looking for trouble. That's good, too. The world needs fewer rapists, and some bait will do a good job drawing them out so you can ventilate them. If that's your plan, go for it. Just remember: Life's a bitch, and then you're raped by wild boars!
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Anyway -- when I met hubby I was pumping gas in a full service gas station, wearing jeans, tee shirt, and jump suite (the regular guy model -- not the female one). It's not my fault I didn't look like a guy. Geeze even had my hair died red with purple spikes -- that should have been more interesting to look at than grey covered boobies
I think you misunderestimate the crudeness and simplicity of the typical male mind.
Judecat:
Yeah, but the only difference between me and you in one of those greasy gas station jumpsuits is the hair, and the lumpy chest area -- and some fat boys got just as much lumps as me.
And real rapists don't care what you are wearing -- even fatigues and combat boots don't slow them down, unless you happen to have your M-16 handy.
J. M. Pescado:
Quote from: Judecat on 2005 September 21, 08:15:29
And real rapists don't care what you are wearing -- even fatigues and combat boots don't slow them down, unless you happen to have your M-16 handy.
Realistically, real rapists tend not to be those weirdos who stalk you in dark alleys anyway, unless you live in a very nasty place. Still, anything which draws attention to you as a soft target is a bad thing, unless that's your plan. And you should always be prepared, naturally. There are nasty people who will otherwise kill you, rob you and toss your unraped corpse in a ditch all the same, which makes the difference rather immaterial. Just remember: Always wear body armor, and always be ready to kill somebody. Guns, knives, or your bare hands, choose whatever fits your physical condition, situation, and personal tastes best. I personally prefer to kill with my bare hands. Disembowelling someone bare-handed is just so much more visceral.
Judecat:
I prefer castration without anistesia myself. Army didn't wanna give medics firearms, so I got to be pretty good with a scaple. Of course now I'm old I'm looking for a riffle with a good scope.
edited to add -- The rapists were more likely to be the guy I danced with in the EM club, or the guy I beat at bowling, or maybe the one I truned down for a date becasue I had plans that night, or the guy who bought me a drink at the Rod and Gun club. Not a scarey stranger -- but not my good friend either. My friends knew if they asked me when I was in the right mood I wouldn't say no. Some of them took me up on it, some never did. But the ones I had to watch out for were the aquantences. specially the ones who tried to get me drunk like that was gonna do them some good. They soon found out I am one mean little drunk.
laeshanin:
As a woman blessed (?) with more than her fair share of mammary (let's not go size, cos when I was feeding babies the damn things came into the room before me) tissue I can honestly say they have been the bane, and the joy, somewhat perversely, of my life. It hasn't even made any difference if I was fat, or thin, they are always the only thing a bloke looks at. However, I have found, for some men, breast size correlates closely to IQ. That is, the bigger the boobies, the smaller the brain. This is not good. At least for them... This involves me having to take charge of a situation and deriving some enjoyment from total humiliation. Spleen removal has been an option, J.M., as has heart, but eyes are good too.
And I agree, Judecat. Most rapists are known briefly to their victim, though sometimes the rapist will believe they've got a relationship where none exists. It's about power too, not sex, and not if a woman "deserves" it because she dresses in something skimpy. Damn, I used to dress in things that were barely there and still had respect from my male friends. The others I didn't give a fig about because they were only there to buy booze. ;D
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