How are my offenders suppose to eat?
Sigmund:
Quote from: blackninja on 2009 October 21, 04:42:44
Have you ever seen how many older men flirt with young girls? Teachers, employeers, neighbors, everyone . Unless they actually make sexual advances, no one except maybe people that see the creepy old man doing it and have morals think it's wrong.
I'm kind of curious about the community in which you live. You may want to consider moving.
blackninja:
Hahahaa, I'm rather curious of what kind of community you live in? If you don't see older people "flirting" with younger people than you sir, are blind! Although I have known some that were extremely perverted and over the top, it happens daily. Flirting isn't just what they show in the game, such as "Embrace, Daze into eyes, Jump into arms" lol, it can be as simple as rather normal conversation with an added hint of sexual tension. If you don't see it, then you need to open your eyes.
Liz:
"Rather normal conversation with an added hint of sexual tension" is not a conversation option in this game. Something either is a flirt, an attempted romantic gesture, or it isn't. Offering a 12 or a 6 a romantic gesture = pedobear.
Also lots of things "happen daily" IRL that aren't appropriate. The fact that they're common doesn't make them okay. It is not okay to offer sexually charged comments to minors. Yes, RL may have such a thing as "innocent, flirtatious compliment" which is nowhere near "attempted pedobear", but it's all points on a sliding scale. At what point do we say it's not appropriate? Different people will say different points, but sims do not have to wonder. Flirt equals come-on, which gets pedobear busted.
Sigmund:
I find it interesting that at least two of the positions you listed are ones with unequal balances of power. I'm fairly certain that, were I to walk into work and begin flirting with my students one day, the general reaction from parents and administration would not be "well, shit happens".
If nothing seems off to you about an adult in a position of power abusing that position to flirt with a minor, then I am entirely grateful you aren't my boss or a teacher.
On a side note, I'm female, not male.
Tangie:
Personally, it occurred to me that blackninja's attitude can all be explained if s/he is a 12. Lol hahaa.
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